Nellyfox wrote:It was locked and canned because no one took it seriously.
Don't really want to say anything else.
I can't believe no one took a massacare seriously Humans aren't that retarded(Or ISIS suporters,actually nevermind It is the same thing),are they ?
It's not really human nature to give a shit about things that don't impact you and yours. No use being outraged over it.
I also don't really care about the happenings that have happened, this does not mean someone should go out of their way to ridicule it.
I'm lacking quite a lot of human emotions, and it's very hard for me to feel empathy (you know, characteristics of a psychopath :p ). As a result I think and act 100% on logic and morals (It's all I have, in a way it's quite sad). Logically, it does not make sense to care about such happening. It does not affect me therefore I should not care. However it is simply bad manner and goes against a very large amount of morals of mine to ridicule or make fun of such a situation. If people don't care about it, that's 100% fine. But you shouldn't ever, EVER go out of your way to take away the ability for other people to mourn.
Is it human nature to "not give a shit" as you put it? absolutely. Is it human nature to make fun of such horrible happenings? Absolutely not. If anything, these people are the outcasts who don't have friends. and while they don't care, they try to use this situation to "have fun" and make fun of it to find others who join them in the "having fun". These are often the people who like to follow others, beg for attention and are mentally unstable themselves.
While I'm extremely un-interested about the killing itself (I know it sounds horrible, but I'm not disrespecting it by denying that it's a horrible occurrence). I'm outraged that there are human beings who are having fun by walking on the dead corpses of others (figuratively speaking). I'm going to call it right now, these are the people who will need psychiatric help in the near future. If they don't receive any, they will feel depressed and may possibly do horrible things in their quest for attention.
Is asking a non-Israeli man of the Jewish faith... to enter Nazi Germany during WW2, for "family matters", when his extended family aren't Jewish...
Is this the same as asking a gay Male to enter a country with his boyfriend- where so much holding hands is illegal by up to 10 years in prison, and the general populace are more than happy to call attention to them so that vigilantes can stab them or shoot them in the night, and have the police not prosecute these vigilantes? You know, for "family matters"?
Is the former just as dangerous as the latter, would you say? Is it a fit comparison?
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I ask because my mom has fallen madly in love with going to Jamaica with my dad, and the two want to renew their vows there in three years. They want the whole family to go to this, including my boyfriend.
Meanwhile, in Jamaica..... =/
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Gobln wrote:"Gaydar" is often homophobic and transphobic so I dont lower myself to that level.
I mean I don't really think most people consider it very homophobic (and I don't see how it could be transphobic at all) but I see where you're coming from. Personally, I don't really have a problem with it, but I don't know about anyone else.
In itself, it is not homophobic nor transphobic. However in practice, it usually is.
Gobln wrote:"Gaydar" is often homophobic and transphobic so I dont lower myself to that level.
I mean I don't really think most people consider it very homophobic (and I don't see how it could be transphobic at all) but I see where you're coming from. Personally, I don't really have a problem with it, but I don't know about anyone else.
In itself, it is not homophobic nor transphobic. However in practice, it usually is.
Well, considering which thread it's been used in, I don't think it is in this case
I'm still a little confused on the "transphobic" part but w/e
People are not being specific enough for it to be homophobic nor transphobic in this thread.
I am surprised you do not understand the transphobic part. It is quite obvious.
Gobln wrote:"Gaydar" is often homophobic and transphobic so I dont lower myself to that level.
I mean I don't really think most people consider it very homophobic (and I don't see how it could be transphobic at all) but I see where you're coming from. Personally, I don't really have a problem with it, but I don't know about anyone else.
In itself, it is not homophobic nor transphobic. However in practice, it usually is.
Well, considering which thread it's been used in, I don't think it is in this case
I'm still a little confused on the "transphobic" part but w/e
People are not being specific enough for it to be homophobic nor transphobic in this thread.
I am surprised you do not understand the transphobic part. It is quite obvious.
Gaydar =/= Transdar smh did you even go to Boy Scouts as a kid
I would normally say move to England But then Brexit ... so don't
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I came out in January nothing really changed for me, everything just kinda stayed normal.
Speaking of coming out, story time!
Spoiler:Basically, I've known I was gay since Freshman year in High School. The reason it took so long to figure out is because I basically had no romantic drive in me, I just buried myself in books until I met friends online. I got with my boyfriend (who I've happily been with for a few years now, online relationship) and never bothered to tell anyone.
Not always so though, I did try a few New Year's Eves to say "I'll make this the year I come out to my mom at least." But I never did, always wussed out on it. Not that she ever showed signs of homophobia or anyone in my family, in fact they showed a lot of support to the LGBT+ community, I just wanted to do a short ripple effect thing since I crack under any sort of pressure.
To keep it simple, I had a really terrible nightmare that was so vivid it still bothers me that basically my whole family died and I panicked. But I was so bad with spoken words, and then I remembered something: I could send a time capsule e-mail. So last year in June I typed a long thing to my mom and had it set to get to her on the day after New Year's Day, and I started mentally counting down and trying to ignore it so I wouldn't chicken out and cancel the e-mail.
Coming closer to New Years, I basically was calm, same for the day she was supposed to get it. And then she sent me a text message with the proposal from the e-mail I told her to send if she was fine with it and didn't want to just not talk about it (I hate locking people into absolutes, I always leave an out). I basically mentally panicked for the next hour and a half to my friends and my boyfriend, calmed down, and talked with her and she wanted to tell dad so she did, he came back and had a talk with me, and things basically stayed the same, and she told my little brother at some point. (FYI: The reason I never told anyone myself and let her do it is cause, again, bad with vocalizing)
And then my mom told my sister (and didn't tell me she told her at my sister's request even though I wanted to know whoever knew about it) and she planned a gay party for me (so basically my older brother and his GF, my sister's ex, and my little bro's GF and my Grandma all knew but I didn't know they did). A rainbow cake covered in my favorite color (green) icing with a pink, plastic My Little Pony in it that my sister baked herself, the gift of a Rainbow Dash plush (hate MLP, but appreciate the gesture), and a rainbow confetti cannon. We had a blast, though my poor sister panicked when I went "NOPE" to the Rainbow Dash plush when I unwrapped it, she had a nightmare the night before that I saw the whole ensemble, got up and went to my room and never came back out.
And after all that, life went on as normal, nobody acted different. My mom did ask over text when I came out (whole bad with face to face talks again) about my boyfriend... Which basically turned into the entire talk she wanted to have, but it worked in my favor of back and forth texting.
So moral of the story: It can be hard to come out, but don't stress about the after if you're accepted. Life moves on and everything will stay normal.
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I have a question for the gay/lesbian people of this forum.
When you started to notice that you had attractions to the the same sex, did you originally think that you were bi instead of gay? I was talking with my bf, when we both realized that when we first felt attractions for the same sex, we both had originally thought we were bi rather than gay (Which was a hope for me, but thats a different story.).
(Sorry for the bump if this causes any trouble.)
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I went from IDing as lesbian to bi, didn't even consider bi because I was uncomfortable around pretty much every guy minus a few close friends. This was in 5th/6th grade though, obviously a lot has changed since then. Not sure if my view is relevant to you though.
Greenpandalover wrote:When you started to notice that you had attractions to the the same sex, did you originally think that you were bi instead of gay?
I had no idea those terms existed, so no I didnt. And I kinda figured out quickly from there.
Yeah, I tried to use logic to say I was bi at first (I had a few girlfriends through my Elementary, Middle and super early High school years so I thought I was straight but then a few guys were catching my attention, especially my current boyfriend, so during early High school I tried rationalizing I was bi) but basically lacked a romantic drive because I wanted nothing to do with people and just read books all the time even when I was dating (until, again, my boyfriend who I talk to a lot). But combing through past thoughts as I was growing up and then re-rationalizing that I was just copying social norms I learned as a kid and grew up and I accepted I was gay because women didn't interest me in the slightest on closer inspection.
Ansem555 wrote:Yeah, I tried to use logic to say I was bi at first (I had a few girlfriends through my Elementary, Middle and super early High school years so I thought I was straight but then a few guys were catching my attention, especially my current boyfriend, so during early High school I tried rationalizing I was bi). But combing through past thoughts as I was growing up and then re-rationalizing that I was just copying social norms I learned as a kid and grew up and I accepted I was gay because women didn't interest me in the slightest on closer inspection.
With removing that bit in the middle, this pretty much relates to me.
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I don't know if this should be here but someone said it should be so I'm just going to repost what I posted in Confessions
JammySplodge wrote:Okay, I promised myself I'd do this today, as I get my exam results, so with a big day comes a big, albeit unrelated, confession I've confessed to some people before on Discord so that's why the formatting is shitty Spoiler:...Okay Here goes I'm a guy(big surprise, I know) At least Physically, i am I don't know about mentally I mean I'm sure everyone is curious to know what it's like being the opposite sex But I doubt they think about it pretty much every night I want to be a girl not permanatly I'm not trans at least, I don't think so But i want to know what it's like to have all that stuff That's why I started this "my gender is an enigma" thingy Because I wanted people to treat me like a girl But I didn't want to lie and say "btw I'm a girl" I've no idea what my gender identity is anymore I might have never know I mean, when I was like 7 I stole some of my mums clothes and dressed up in them She never found out But yeah I still do it occasionally Steal a bra stuff it put it on look at myself in the mirror then sneak it into the laundry basket when I'm done and like for a few years I've been obsessed with watching videos of guys turning into girls I used to fantacise about me being in that position I still do And I've never felt very masculine but I've never felt very feminine either So yeah It'd be nice if people treated me like a girl Just to sate my curiosity But that's not going to happen ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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