Moleland wrote:It is easy making judgements in hindsight - we can't know what Moonbird was thinking. If she is GF then she mega messed up. If she is town then Evil mega messed up not updating his will.
It doesn't make a lot of sense, but it is the more likely version of 2 implausible scenerios.
"Mega messed up" is just dismissive. You don't "mega mess up" without TRYING TO DO SOMETHING.
I mean, let's say that your girlfriend pulls out a crowbar and hits you in the knee, knocking you off your feet, then beats you about the head and arms continuously. You are badly hurt, and she leaves you in a ditch where it could be presumed that you would die, but you somehow find help and survive.
We can definitely agree that she failed in her objective, but would you say that she "mega messed up" in trying to kill you, or "mega messed up" in attempting to get you to propose to her so you two could be together forever?
Saying "I think she was trying to propose, but she just REALLY HARDCORE FUCKED UP" wouldn't really cut it. You have to look at intent -- no reasonable person would think that what she was doing would accomplish that goal.
No reasonable person would expect that GF moonbird would gain anything from the claim. Saying she made a mistake -- either way, that's true. But saying "I guess she's GF and the mistake was just a bigger one" is like saying "I think my girlfriend really loves me and the crowbar was just a bad way to express it."